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Amie McGraham's avatar

This story, so full of poignant grace. And ABBA!!💜

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Lindsey Trout Hughes's avatar

Always ABBA!

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Abigail Mann's avatar

This is such a beautifully accurate representation of what it feels like. What a soul your daughter has! It reminds me of something my nephew said to my mum when she was playing with him once: 'You're not old, you're a little girl with wrinkles.'

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Lindsey Trout Hughes's avatar

Oh wow 🥹

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Nico's avatar

What a lovely thing to share with us Lindsey. Remember to keep these words and photos to hand when your daughter becomes a teenager and you might both need a reminder of red dresses and closeness.

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Linda J Sack's avatar

Oh, Lindsey! Can I be your daughter? What wonderful thoughts in this post. I hope your daughter will one day read these missives.

This would be a wonderful chapter in a book!

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Lindsey Trout Hughes's avatar

Thank you, Linda! Cross your fingers about the book!🤞🏻

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Hannah Levy's avatar

oh goodness. this has me in tears. as a mother to a deeply intuitive six year old child, I feel that sense of timelessness in our bond. I joke around that Aylah was my mother in a past life, or a teacher or mentor, but the truth is I feel spiritually that we have known each other since before both of us were born. sometimes she looks at me and I can feel her reaching for the child version of me. you have captured the aching beauty of bending time through parental love. thank you for this gorgeous offering.

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Lindsey Trout Hughes's avatar

Thank you so much for this lovely note, Hannah. Have you seen Celine Sciamma's "Petite Maman"? I wrote about it in early drafts of this essay. I think you'd love it!

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Hannah Levy's avatar

it's on my list!!!

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Kimberly Sheridan's avatar

Whew! Stunning 🥲❤️

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Lindsey Trout Hughes's avatar

Thanks so much, Kimberly! Always so grateful for your encouragement. ❤️

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Angela Cummings's avatar

So beautiful, Linsey—thank you.

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Lindsey Trout Hughes's avatar

Thank you for reading!

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Patricia Lane's avatar

Absolutely beautiful!

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Lindsey Trout Hughes's avatar

😘🙏🏻❤️

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Emma Parsons's avatar

This is beautiful Lindsey. The notion of bending and spending time with ourselves and the children we love completely resonates with me.

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Lindsey Trout Hughes's avatar

I'm so glad! Thanks for reading, Emma.

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Chloë Zofia's avatar

I freaking LOVE this painting!!

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